to have a happy life, we should have a fighting spirit to reach our happiness,. all bad things try to destroy our life and our joy, it's our personal responsibility to win and keep joy inside our life. life is full of problems, fear, failure, misunderstand, and all negative things, but we created to be a warrior, it's our responsibility to fight the problems! 

there's three important things that warriors should have in order to win the battle, first physical health, second is mental maturity, and third is emotional stability. To win battle, warriors should have a strategy to fight so they not get lost. so now, i want to share some strategy to you

first, about physical health

If you want to life happy for a long time, you should keep your body healthy. Don't destroy your body by doing things in vain. you should know that your body is a precious things and can't be replaced. maintain your personal health by eat healthy food, exercise, sleep well and live a healthy life.  don't waste your time to do things that can destroy your body. for example free sex, smoking, drunk, etc. you are the master of your own body, so please be wise to choose which way of life you should live. 

second, mental maturity

mature is about choice, you should make a right choice for your own happiness. do something useful for your life. don't waste your time and your money by doing a wasting things. don't let laziness, your negative thinking and your childish emotion control your life. be wise in spending and earning money. improvident and greediness will destroy you and the people you love. choose all things in right way, prepare yourself to face the future. don't be scared to try and learn new things, improve your skill and experience. have a positive mind and don't forget to do something with love, because love never fails. choose to see something with a different perspective, choose to be grateful, choose to believe, choose to fulfill your life with love, etc. Everything in your life is a choice, so choose your life rightly. 

third, emotional stability

In the book that I read about war strategy, if you want to beat and destroy your enemy, make them feels angry, when their emotion is not stable, it's easy to destroy their army. emotion related to respon. bad things will come and go in your life, but your response will determine your life be successful or not. don't deceived by anger, disappointment, and negative thinking. all that things only destroy you and give a negative impact for you. if you have a problem, try to be calm and think to solve the problem. don't decide something when emotion still control you, weigh the impact in every decision you make. count and make a preparation, stay calm is the best strategy for you to face this life. your right response will take you to the right things. for example, if someone put you down, try to make a right respon. don't hate them and don't get angry, but you should be carefull. 

we are warriors who will win this life by being success and happy, we should destroy our negativeness in order to have a happy life. don't give up on yourself, God will never give up on you, so keep fighting for your own happiness. I believe that everyone are worthy, so make your life meaningful. happy fighting guys ^^